I was reading a post entitled Random Picture from a blogsite I was visiting for the first time.
Random Picture is a game of tag on cyberspace, and the author wrote "...if you are reading this consider yourself tagged."
The instructions are to go to the sixth folder in your picture file, pick the sixth photo, and tell the story.
Well, one of the fun things about blogging is that it is non-invasive, and non-intrusive. You can be as anonymous or as up front as you want to be. You are free to comment, or to remain silent. You can tiptoe in and out of other people's blogs, or make your presence felt by dropping a line or two. And as a blog author, you can write whenever you want to. There really are no rules, except that you be decent and kind.
So, today, I think I will go along and play tag.
Here's the story behind the sixth picture in the sixth folder of my picture file:
This is a picture of my husband Ernie when he was just in his early twenties. It must have been taken about 40 years ago.
I recognize the tower in the background, it is the top of the Cagsawa Church Tower in the province of Albay, all that was left of the church after Mayon Volcano erupted in 1814; the rest of it was buried in lava and ash. Read about this eruption here.
How I came to have this picture in my picture file is another story. When my husband passed away unexpectedly in November 2008, we looked for old pictures to put in a powerpoint presentation that we were putting together to honor him. My daughter took shots of his old pictures from his photo album.
What I love about this picture is the smile on Ernie's face. My husband was always smiling, he had a heart that was always joyful and singing.
I really miss him.
Thank you, Lord, for the memories. (Here is the post entitled Songs of Deliverance which I wrote the day after he went home to heaven.)
11 comments:
I also got tagged with the photo challenge and it was fun. I enjoyed your photo and the story behind it and am glad for the good memories it brought you.
Thank you for praying for us in America. God is using this crisis to turn hearts back to Himself.
Hi Lidia,
Having a rough week and was talking to God today. You came to mind and I wished I could have emailed you, then the thought came that you are still very much in the mourning process. As I read this, I could not help but feel your loss with you. That song is so perfect. It is amazing to see God in the details of your life esp. in the moments when you needed Him the most. May God continue to carry you in the months ahead when memories will be triggered, when the loss will hit you suddenly...in those times, may you know His Presence like you have never felt it before.
I would appreciate your prayers too.
Lidj, I love the things you share. Ernie was a handsome man! I know you miss him dearly. Thank you sooooo much for visiting and encouraging my friend Angie (and me!) How great is our God that we can spur each other on to His glory! Love you, dear sister.
Lidj, my email addy is:
trinisita at hotmail dot com
(spelt out to avoid auto mail harvesting)
Thank you for sharing this bitter-sweet memory with us. What a tender and holy passing of your husband from this life into his next. Your response in letting him go was a powerful witness to the faith that obviously live and walk and breathe every day. As a pastor's wife and Bible study leader, I frequently have to deal with the issue of "death." Last night, we launched our Esther study with one of our "usuals" missing. The dr. has discovered a large mass pressing on the top of her spine. She's been battling cancer for over 5 years, and things don't look good.
Needless to say, there was a lot of tears and frustration, anger and questions last evening. Answers I don't have, but faith enough to believe that God is in control.
I would appreciate your prayers as I seek to deal with all of this in a graceful and Godly way.
I think in many ways, death is the grappling of our hearts, both in the physical and in the spiritual.
Enough said; thanks for being a living witness to the fact that this world is not our home. We're moving on to a better place.
peace~elaine
Hi,
Just discovered your wonderful blog.
What a beautiful tribute to your husband.
I've enjoyed reading several of your posts.
So nice to met you, I will be back!
(My son lived in Thailand a few months ago, and is planning on going back to teach English!)
I haven't been around much...have been down with a miserable cold and cough that continues to linger and linger.....
always am blessed when I come by to visit you...I love reading all you write and especially that you share about Ernie and the precious memories etched in your heart....
pray you are well...hugs and prayers to you...
donna
I too am just discovering your blog. Congratulations on being listed in the Cafe's "Top 100 Blogs." You do have a blessing going on here with your writing. Your heart shows!
:-)
God bless you and the ministry you have!
~esthermay @The Heart of a Pastor's Wife
I am so sorry you lost your husband, he was a very handsom man. You must miss him very much. Thank you for sharing that photo of him.
I also want to thank you for stopping by my blog. I thank God everyday for the wonderful friends He is blessing me with through the internet. My purpose for writing about our story is to hopefully share and educate people, especially those in the church, about a forgotten group of people. I hope I don't come across looking for pity, that is not what I want.
You are blessing and I look forward to reading more of your posts.
Gina
The Lord brings blessings and remembrances to mind when we need them most. This post is a great idea and may spur me to do the same.
Hugs from the North Woods
Dear Lidj, This bitter, sweet memory is a precious post. Thank you for allowing us in to see more of your journey. You are a precious one, who has found your God in the midst... True beauty!
Thank you for your visit and your sweet words. I enjoy your visits so much. Your words bless me more than you know.
Hugs from Georgia!
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